2011 - Its juuuuuuust the start of it all!!!!!!

Shoo weee.

What an awesome weekend that I had this past weekend. Best one of this year, so far.

I went to a wedding this past weekend and what a beautiful one it was. It was a traditional wedding and there was nothing but love and happiness in the air. Black weddings are the best ever, a) cos hay it NEVER EVER starts on time, b) the food is just always so good c) there is just so much celebrating its crazy. Dancing , singing, drinking and just happiness.

Mpho and I were about an hour and a half late, but actually we were on time cos it’s a black wedding and African timing is always on my side J.At this wedding I learnt that people can meet and know each other for 12 odd years, live their lives and then find that they are meant for each other so many years later  and the just make it work.

I learnt that people can be so humble no matter how rich they are and that makes them so much more enjoyable and so human.

I also learnt that the hotter a person is and the less they know they are hot, well basically the hotter they get in my eyes.

Mpho, taught me to panic from the inside and keep calm on the outside, nobody wants to see a panicky person…well a panicky me rather.

Singing at the top of your lungs and people thinking your craze, is by far the coolest thing ever.

Walking  through a mall, while wearing traditional attire and buying ice cream is actually better than singing at the top of your lungs.

Being spontaneous is what I do best, when I want to. I need to know more people who are just as spontaneous and yes just as cool as me as well.(Grappie J )

I’ve also learnt that there are some friendships that have expired and renewing them seriously wouldn’t bring any value to my life and I am okay with seeing them once every  7 months or so. Sounds horrible, but suppose that is the nature of the beast…Or maybe it’s the nature of the beast when you are forever whining about stupid things and just being on a different level to the rest of us *sigh*

I learnt that YES actually you should dance like nobody is watching, because really nobody cares that you are doing the ‘’charlie brown’’ or dancing like you are from the 80’s...because at the end of the evening everyone is here  to have a good time and you should do just that.

I also realised if ‘people’ are making out on the dance floor, then actually I am too old to be there..LOL.

I really did learn a lot this weekend I suppose, but mostly just have a damn good time, you live once and this is the year to break boundaries and perhaps a few hearts, but lets stick to just boundaries.!!!

2011 just got a whole lot more exciting!!!! LET’S GO!

P.S I also learnt that I want to have the DJ’s babies – HAHAHA.

P.S.S Romeo and Adonis are real people!!! J J J  

What I Learnt About Love In 2010

I learnt that love has no, age, colour, gender.

I learnt that love can burn you, like holding a hot coal in your hand, but yet you still want to hold it.
I learnt that love can look you in the eye and be honest, but at the same time hide so many truths.

I learnt that love does lie.

I learnt that love can hold you close and make you feel like the only person in the world.

I learnt that love indeed can be blind.

I learnt that love can kick you while your down but yet you can still believe in it.

I learnt that love, has no room for judgement just room for love and nothing else.

I learnt that love can hurt you, but still you want to love.

I learnt that some people have different views of what love is.

I learnt that some people run away from real love, to what they think love is.

I leant that love, is not an action, nor is it really a feeling it JUST is, but mostly

I learnt that love is strong and only cares for joyful giving.

I learnt that I will probably learn all these things again this year about LOVE and that’s okay, because LOVE  is really not a lesson to be learnt but an EXPERIENCE to be welcomed with both arms and to simply watch and let  it grow.

Resolu.....ah fuck it!

So here we are the New Year of 2011 and I bet you, everyone has a resolution list as long as their arm.
Everyone is also going to stick to it for as long as two days at the most.
Fine okay granted not everyone is that weak and some people do actually stick to their resolutions.

For me resoultions shouldn't even start in the new year, it should be about deciding what you are going to change in your life right here and right now.
Why do we always wait for the new year, or next week tuesday, or the months that end with a 31, or 13.30 on tuesday the 31st of February (yes I know feb has like 28days and sometimes 29 but you get the point)
What's this BIG sign that's going to come on those days, times or year.

The truth is we are never really waiting for a specific date, time, place or event... We are really waiting for ourselves! There is no BIG sign that says now is the time!
Now is the time! Right now! If you want to axe a friend, do it now, you want to quit yóur job do it now!

Maybe for your new years resoultion- don't have a resolution, just do what you want to do,and don't uhm and ahhh!

Yourself is here, so what are you waiting for?

Happy 2011...make it count, don't make it count, its really up to you at the end of it all and not the year!